Children have limited ability to recognize during childhood and adolescence. Most of the time they can't tell whether parents' intimidation is true or false, they will only fall into confusion and fear. Under this kind of psychology, the intimate relationship between parents and children will spread all over the cracks. This childhood shadow will grow up with the children. The casual scare of the parents may be a terrible nightmare in the eyes of the child. The child will quickly lose the natural to the parents. Attachment and trust, and this attachment relationship and trust psychology are extremely difficult to repair. Therefore, parents must avoid using scary means to educate their children, such as driving children out, etc. and don't do it anymore.
3. Don't beat your child when the mood is fluctuating
Although the parents are adults, they are likely to be unable to control their own strength when the mood is fluctuating. The parents are not very heavy. The parents are very angry when they beat the children to make good news. When they are crying, they will regret it. It’s all too late. Taking the power of an adult to teach the child, in case of accidentally hitting the child's vulnerable part, it is entirely possible to leave the child with a wound that is difficult to heal, and the parents will have no sense of concentration when they are passionate about exporting. The words of the heart are spoken without reservation, and the words that adults can't stand, the children may leave deep psychological scars.
Looking at the child into a dragon, looking at the woman into a phoenix, is a good vision for every parent, but when parents use this kind of education to improperly use snoring, turning snoring into simple punishment and humiliation, this is an unacceptable behavior. The essence of education is to nourish the child's psychology and body, let them thrive, and not to make the children scarred, so that the relationship between parents is bad.xx