父母就算再气急,这三种情况也不准打骂孩子,不然长大记恨你


当我还是个孩子的时候,我邻居的家人就是单亲母亲。在记得中学入学考试的结果后,他的母亲只对孩子尖叫,因为她比我低了两分。她还带着皮带打了孩子,邻居跑了。当我看到兴奋之后,在有人去说服之后,他的母亲仍然舔着孩子的脚,他摔倒在地上,无法站起来。这是我父母殴打孩子时最常记得的事情。后来,他上大学后,他去了东北地区上大学。我听说是远离母亲,他母亲独自一人在家乡。他应该很孤单。无论父母多么希望自己的孩子好,在以下三种情况下都不要打孩子。否则,孩子们年轻时可能不敢抗拒,但他们可能会记住他们的父母一辈子!

e1af49746f784ea4a54ea94c9baa42c2

1.不要在拥挤的情况下打败孩子

许多父母都有在公共场合打击儿童的经历。事实上,这会严重损害孩子的自尊心,使孩子感到自卑。在严重的情况下,他甚至会避免与他人接触并变得内向。孩子的心灵敏感而细腻。父母使用打鼾可能是合理的。但最终,这种方式是教育孩子,使孩子犯错误,反省和成长,但在公众眼中打鼾。孩子们,这对孩子向他人展示自己正面形象的愿景深感打击。他们会认为他们的形象已被摧毁,他们会对父母负责甚至仇恨。这种仇恨时间的流逝将变得异化和冷漠。事实上,儿童棍棒的教育最好在私人空间进行,这不仅可以保护孩子的温柔心灵,还可以使打鼾成为一种教育工具而不是简单的惩罚。

295b031df1054214b18b8f0ccbd49870

2.无论如何不要吓唬孩子

Children have limited ability to recognize during childhood and adolescence. Most of the time they can't tell whether parents' intimidation is true or false, they will only fall into confusion and fear. Under this kind of psychology, the intimate relationship between parents and children will spread all over the cracks. This childhood shadow will grow up with the children. The casual scare of the parents may be a terrible nightmare in the eyes of the child. The child will quickly lose the natural to the parents. Attachment and trust, and this attachment relationship and trust psychology are extremely difficult to repair. Therefore, parents must avoid using scary means to educate their children, such as driving children out, etc. and don't do it anymore.

8d4213c26ebb4fed997086dc66a8ee9e

3. Don't beat your child when the mood is fluctuating

Although the parents are adults, they are likely to be unable to control their own strength when the mood is fluctuating. The parents are not very heavy. The parents are very angry when they beat the children to make good news. When they are crying, they will regret it. It’s all too late. Taking the power of an adult to teach the child, in case of accidentally hitting the child's vulnerable part, it is entirely possible to leave the child with a wound that is difficult to heal, and the parents will have no sense of concentration when they are passionate about exporting. The words of the heart are spoken without reservation, and the words that adults can't stand, the children may leave deep psychological scars.

4f9a99ccecb547eb8a475c205ac372bd

Looking at the child into a dragon, looking at the woman into a phoenix, is a good vision for every parent, but when parents use this kind of education to improperly use snoring, turning snoring into simple punishment and humiliation, this is an unacceptable behavior. The essence of education is to nourish the child's psychology and body, let them thrive, and not to make the children scarred, so that the relationship between parents is bad.

xx